Our journey together will begin much like a typical relationship with any other therapist. I will listen to your concerns around intimacy, sexuality, and relationships in a way that is non-judgemental. I work proactively to detect shame and bring it into light so that you can feel more free in your sexual expression. I don’t come into our time together with any preconceived notions about how things “should be” nor do I have biases around what relationship models are “right” or “wrong”. My only aim is to help you find your way so that you can live in your authentic power. Whether it be mapping your boundaries, communicating your core desires, learning how to seduce your partner in their unique love language, or learning to repair after an argument, you will get learn step by step tools that are practicable in the moment.


    It can be nerve wracking to be a man in the age of the #metoo movement.  I help man own and express their authentic desire in ways that are ethical and honoring of women.  I teach consent, how to be attuned your (potential) partner's body language, seduction skills, and how to be an extraordinary lover!


    Own your desire and embody your full confidence!

    • Confidence & Seduction
    • Self-acceptance & self-love
    • Dating & surviving rejection
    • Relationship patterns
    • Finding your voice
    • Asking for what you want
    • How to communicate emotions & feelings 
    • Understanding women
    • Delayed ejaculation
    • Premature ejaculation
    • Becoming multi-orgasmic
    • Sexual abuse
    Women sometimes feel low desire due to sexual shame, previous trauma, or poor seduction in their relationship.  I help women find out what turns them on and communicate it to their partner so that they can have more fulfilling sex!


    Find your voice and become a priestess of pleasure!

    • Relationship patterns
    • Dating & surviving rejection
    • Empowerment in relationships
    • Seduction & surrendering
    • Fulfilling fantasies
    • Boundaries & consent 
    • Shame & societal pressure
    • Initiating sex
    • Multiple orgasms
    • Low desire 
    • Anorgasmia 
    • Sexual abuse
    Keep the spark in your relationship!


    Begin to relate with more passion and grace with your partner!

    • Difference in sex drives
    • Practice nonviolent communication
    • Different core desires
    • Learn how to communicate fantasies
    • Learn how to communicate about what you want in the bedroom
    • Different needs around attachment styles
    • Monogamy vs non-monogamy
    Keep the spark in your relationship!


    Fully inhabit your authentic expression!

    • Gender expression & identity
    • Coming out vs. not
    • Healing trauma
    • Releasing shame
    • Self acceptance & self love
    • Relationship patterns
    • Roles & dynamics 
    • Modern dating 
    • Surviving rejection
    • Shame & societal pressure
    • Sexual abuse
    • Boundaries & consent 
    • Finding your voice
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    Megan Annestasia

    Hi, I'm Megan, a trauma focused love coach who specializes in building sexual and relational confidence. I'm passionate about helping people who have experienced trauma heal and reclaim their sexuality.

    I know that trauma can have a profound impact on our relationships, our sense of self, and our ability to feel pleasure. I also know that it's possible to heal from trauma and create a fulfilling and intimate sex life.

    In my coaching practice, I use a variety of techniques, including Brainspotting, Somatic Experiencing, NARM and The Somatica Method. I also draw on my own personal experience of healing from trauma.

    I believe that everyone deserves to feel safe, loved, and desired. I'm here to help you create a life where you can fully express your sexuality and experience the joy of intimacy.

    If you're ready to start healing and reclaiming your sexuality, I encourage you to reach out to me. I would be honored to support you on your journey.

  • Are finances the only thing holding you back from reaching out?

    I reserve a couple spots every quarter for scholarship based rates for my 90 day coaching program.

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  • Credentials and Trainings

    -Certified in the Somatica method of sex and relationship coaching

    -Studied Brainspotting at the Pacific Trauma center

    -Certified NARM informed professional (Neuro Affective Relational Model for complex developmental trauma)

    -Studied at the Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute

    -Studied psychology at St. Mary's College of Maryland

    -Studied early childhood development with a focus on brain development and attachment theory at CCSF

    -15 years of experience as a massage therapist. Certified by the San Francisco School of Massage. Trained in many modalities including Swedish, Deep Tissue, Myofascial Release, Shiatsu, Reiki, and Chakra Balancing.

    -Obtained tantra educator certification at the Source School of Tantra Yoga

    -Initiated into the Sri Vidya lineage of Tantra with Janice Craig

    -Mentored with Joseph Kramer, founder of the Sexological Bodywork program

    -Worked as a gynecological teaching associate at Project Prepare teaching medical students at Stanford and Touro University how to perform sexually sensitive exams

    -Obtained doula certificate at the Heart and Hands intro to midwifery training with Elizabeth Davis, author of “Orgasmic Birth”

    -Studied jade egg and other Taoist practices with Halo Seranko

    -Studied Whole Body Wisdom with Scott Longwell

    -Completed 2 of 4 years program to become a Practitioner of Higher Conciousness through the Inner Light Center (metaphysical studies)

    *Sex and Relationship Coaching is not psychotherapy. I am not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, licensed social worker or licensed marriage and family therapist, and I do not offer therapy, psychotherapy or medical advice.*


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    25 Cadillac Dr. Suite 210
    Sacramento, CA 95825
    Mon - Fri 9am -5pm
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